✓ Create a clear and compelling vision

✓ Develop a plan you can actually execute

✓ Destroy your limiting beliefs

✓ Learn communication skills that get results


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Have you seen the film Cinderella Man?

There’s this great scene where father and boxer Jim Braddock (Russell Crowe) has been on a losing streak until suddenly he’s not losing anymore. He’s winning.

So a reporter asks him, “What are you fighting for?”

Jim answers, “Milk."

Jim wasn’t fighting for medals or answering some distant call of the wild.  Jim was fighting for milk for his kids.

For me, "milk" is all of a father's responsibilities, everything he must fight for.

With a glorious wife and kids comes personal responsibility.

You become accountable for your family’s prosperity, health, happiness, and making all the right decisions for their holiness—milk.

The stakes are high. Will you engage, or will you throw in the towel? Will you reach for a better life, or will you retreat into your phone? Will you find your fight?

Say goodbye to missed opportunities.

If you’re still guessing at what to say…

If you feel stuck professionally...

If your latest “family tradition” did diddly-squat to improve the culture…

If your monthly budget feels like a game of “let’s light some money on fire”…

If you feel like you just don’t know what you want anymore…

Then I’ve got great news for you: it can get better. But what you need is a step-by-step plan to get back on track. And I’d like to share mine with you.

Is it time to take up the Fight for Milk Challenge?

This on-demand course will help you hone your vision, develop a plan that at actually works, build your conviction in the face of adversity, and become a more effective communicator, but only if you are sick of the status quo.



High level professionals embrace the basics. Great saints embrace the basics. Pro athletes repeat the same drills they did when they were ten years old.

The Four Action Steps are the basics, and whether at work or at home embracing the basics is essential to success.

I’m Tyler Blanski

I know what it's like to make mistakes—even to fall flat on my face in front of the people I love most. I have to push myself to grow every day.

But after working with fathers in business, prison ministry and chaplain ministry, serving as the pastoral associate of faith formation at a large Catholic parish, and raising my own crazy brood of three children with my beautiful wife, I’ve seen that no matter what you’re up against, there are basic, underlying principles that can help men do this right.


Michael Knowles

The Michael Knowles Show

"A major heretic...I live in Los Angeles, and out here [Tyler Blanski] would be a total heretic."

Dr. Peter Kreeft

Professor of Philosophy, Boston College

"Expect great things from this man!"

Dr. Scott Hahn

Professor of Theology and Scripture, author, speaker, and apologist

"A marvel of charity and a prodigy of style."

What happens when you take up the Fight for Milk Challenge?

✓ You hone your vision.

Imagine what the world would be like if fathers had a vision—a holy ambition—for their homes, parishes, and communities. “This is where we’re going!” A vision is a clear, practical, and attractive picture of what could be. Men must look ahead with wisdom and imagination, and then point the way so others can follow into the future.

✓ You see results.

What would happen if fathers never quit on their dreams, if they planned and fought for their marriages, families, careers, and neighborhoods? It's one thing to have a vision. Eventually, we have to roll up our sleeves and get after it. Every single day husbands and fathers and breadwinners have to decide to take decisive action.

✓ You build your conviction.

What if fathers had an unshakable commitment to their wives and children? What if they believed in what was good and true to the depths of their being—at home and in the marketplace—and had bullet-proof conviction? Don't wait for others to say "Go." Every man must learn how to build his own conviction from within.

✓ You communicate with clarity and confidence.

Imagine a world where fathers step up and take total responsibility for their communication—both speaking and listening—whether they’re talking with their wives, their kids, their colleagues, or their neighbor. Men called to be fathers must speak and listen in a way that moves everyone forward.  

What happens when you don't fight for milk?

Most opportunities have expiration dates. If missed, they're lost.

But it's never too late to redeem the time.


Also included in your membership

Daily videos, live calls, and a growing library of courses to solve the biggest challenges facing you as a father.


Start your day right with 1-2 minute videos sent right to your inbox. Tyler shares stories, reads poetry, studies Scripture, & shares some of the best of what's been thought and said.


Join our exclusive Facebook-like community, hop on a live call to listen to other fathers share their stories  (coming soon!) & get direct access to Tyler Blanski.


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Hit play on fatherhood while the rest of the world hits pause.

  • Get your FREE 28-Day Pass.
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Do you have a friend who would benefit from the Fight for Milk community and courses?

  • Receive all the benefits of membership +1.
  • Help another man get plugged in for free.
  • Receive a private email to sign up your buddy. 
  • Celebrate with donuts (optional).



Want to have greater impact and change the face of the Church? Invest in the father.

  • Receive all the benefits of membership + help us invest in fathers.
  • Get FOUR VIP e-books, The Forgotten Prayer, The Fight for Milk Challenge, Communicate with Clarity & Confidence, and the Father's Examination of Conscience.
  • Receive exclusive VIP bonus content.

Tyler Whatley

MTS, BCC, National Association of Catholic Chaplains

"Fight for Milk “plunders the gold” of the social sciences and the discipline of organizational leadership while simultaneously affirming the inherent spirituality of fatherhood. As a leader in healthcare ministry and as a married father of four, I can say wholeheartedly that Blanski has synthesized the best of what dads need to know in order to flourish in our God-given vocation."

Kevin O'Brien

Co-Founder of Men of Christ & the Catholic Men's Leadership Alliance

"Fight for Milk provides practical tools to help integrate your faith, family, and work life. If you are searching for a simple but effective approach that will help you excel, bring order to your day, and peace into your soul, the F4M course is for you!"

Sam Guzman

Father, author, and founder of the Catholic Gentleman

"Fight for Milk is inspiring and practical. In simple, jargon free terms, it cuts through the noise and distractions and gets us back to basics, training our attention on what really matters and helping us achieve our full potential as husbands, fathers, and men."


✓ The Forgotten Prayer E-Book

✓ The Communicate with Clarity & Confidence Pocket Guide

✓ The Fight for Milk Backstory & Challenge E-Book

✓ A Father's Examination of Conscience

Return on your investment

If the only thing you got from this course was to double the effectiveness of your bedtime battles with the kids, it’d be worth it.

If the only thing you got from these modules was the ability to hone your communication skills so that you negotiate a better raise, it’d be worth it.

If the only thing you got from the Fight for Milk Challenge was to make your life happier this year than it was last year, it’d be worth it.

Not only do the Four Action Steps do each of the things, they do more: I believe it will bring about a deep transformation.

When you finish Fight for Milk Challenge

I will have succeeded if you’ve applied these mindsets and tactics to transform your career, your marriage, your parenting, your life.

A man who fights for milk is not looking to win a medal. What he wants is to change his expectations and behavior, to have more impact in the marketplace, to shift the spiritual and emotional environment of his home, and to lead so that he can secure the safety and ultimate flourishing of everyone involved.

For the life of his family, he takes his job seriously, pays attention to the craft of fatherhood. He has mastered the art of decision making, and he leads his family into a better future. He never stops growing.

The Four Action Steps are learnable, actionable, and repeatable. As they become habits, they become a life. When there’s unexpected turns in the road, left punches and unforeseen challenges, you’ll need to go through each phase again in order: re-hone your vision, rebuild your conviction, revise your plan, and reframe your conversations.

  • Do I know what I want?
  • Do I believe I can do it?
  • Do I have a realistic plan?
  • Do I know how to have the conversations necessary to achieve this goal?

What if two minutes could change everything?

In addition to the Fight for Milk courses, you can take advantage of the "Quick Wins," daily 2-minute videos. To see sustainable growth this year, all you really need is 2 minutes of information a day. Get your head right. Guard the culture. Do your best work.



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